Thursday, May 5, 2011

Army Wife = Bitch?

Does being an Army Wife really always mean you're a big ol' bitch? I mean seriously, I've come across A WHOLE HELL OF A LOT OF THEM since I've met my husband, and believe me when I tell you they learn to disguise themselves pretty well and only when it comes to that kind of breed you'll find that rank does NOT matter. They come in all kinds of sizes and colors and shapes and what not. But they all share that fake ass bitch gene. Maybe it really isn't their fault? Maybe they can't control being like that? Who knows. But then again there's so many different kinds, you have the drama bitches, the fake bitches, lying bitches, combine them all in to one bitches. Ok enough with the b word.

What set me off? Well, I've been looking for some new boards on facebook and came across a few good ones tonight. Ok, so I thought. One of them, ha, not so much. Not unless you're into white trash drama.

It was supossed to be a "debate" group for Army wives. The founder of the page and her admin would continously post questions that started debates, which hey, that's just my style, I'm always up for a good debate. It seemed to be the perfect board for me, little miss talk and debate a lot. I don't even know where to begin here, I'm still shaking my head about how stupid some women really are.

So they start a debate asking a question they know most people will have an opposite opinion to as to theirs and as soon as that happens BAM! the bitch squad sets into motion. They twist your words around, the blow everything you say out of porportion, they personally attack you and completely loose track of what the debate was really about. And all of that on purpose.

LMAO seriously, how old are you???? What kind of lives are you living that you will set up a page like that where your only, and I mean ONLY, intend is to verbally attack people and piss them off? Do you feel all strong and mighty hiding behind your computer cursing ppl out because they don't have the same low IQ as you? Are you proud to call yourself an Army wife when you do that kind of stuff? Really? What a disgrace. And really that's all that is. A disgrace.

There was also a post on that page, that was directed (and yes they used that persons name in the specific post) about how that person was back on the page with a new profile bla bla after he/she was supossedly blocked. So they start this name calling game AGAIN and it just goes back and forth and everyone just jumps in cursing that person out. WTH??? And you're telling me you're NOT addicted to drama? If you weren't, the first sign of that blocked person with a new profile, click, blocked. DONE. The way the founder/admin of that page handles things is just plain low class. Lowest of the lowest. And plenty of "followers" where right there to help a lending hand.

About 15minutes into being part of that group, I was out.

A friend of mine told me today I should really consider writing a book and lay it on the line. What the life of an Army wife REALLY is about. Not what you see on TV shows. None of that is real. It's fiction. It may be inspired by true stories, but there's so much they DON'T show. Not just good things, oh no. I really think I should be heading in that direction.
Well find the time first... That's the main goal for now.

Anyway. I hope everyone's having a pleasant evening... I just wanted to share this oh so great facebook experience with y'all. And no, I still don't think facebook is the devils work... Not yet anyway.
Peace out.

2 comments:

  1. Stefanie,I'm so glad I am not the only person who feels this way!!! Recently on our deployment group we just had a huge drama go down because of a pack of wives who liked to bully everyone and take over the group. I finally had enough and Blocked them. Well boy did I get harrased after that and still am. And regardless it wouldn't have mattered one single bit what anyone said they were just wanting to be B******!!!!!! This was not the first time the attacked a memeber of the group either. It really does re-affirm my conviction not to get to personal with alot of other wives. There really are a ton like that. Thank you for blogging about this. I actually was questioning myself if this stuff really happened or if I just took it the wrong way. I'm glad to see I knew I was right about them.

    Oh BTW I really love your blog... You seriously could write a book about the "real army wives".

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  2. I actually heard about your blog on one of those debate pages. I like what you have to say. You're blunt about it. You got balls. Keep it real and simple. :] I just started my blog too, check it out and let me know what you think.

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