Cheers to the Wh***s in this world

Who would have thought that today would turn into such an amusing day?

Despite all the haters around me, I did DVR the Royal Wedding and did a quick run through this morning after my son left for school. Yes I cried. Kate was a beautiful bride. She's always been beautiful to me, she seems flawless. Her smile is magical and addictive. And William, well I never thought he was good looking but I guess you could call him somewhat handsome. And well, he's the future KING of England so that gives him extra points. So, they got married today and it's just one of those things a lot of people don't understand. They're my age, they're my generation. I "grew up with them" sorta speak. I was glued to the TV when Princess Di was killed. I will never forget the day of her funeral. I know, I'm not even british. But I'm European. Europe still has something that the USA doesn't have. We have Monarchy. Real life Monarchy. Just like back in the day, only the modern version of it, if that makes any sense at all. I have to admit (DON'T GET YOUR FEELINGS HURT NOW) I have never experienced so much ignorance as I have over the passed two days. People saying they don't give a shit about this effin princess crap, there's more important things, but then they turn around and watch Jersey Shore? They claim there's more important things in the world going on than the Royal Wedding, at the same time they are saying they haven't heard about the 9 americans that were shot dead at an airport in Kabul this week? It has nothing to do with the USA so why give a shit? That's where you make yourself out to be ignorant.
I had to endure a lot of ignorance when I organzied the fundraiser for Japan, people attacked me for helping Japan when there are so many homeless in the USA. People telling me Japan doesn't deserve the help, they didn't help when Katrina hit here.To set that one straight, if you do choose to be ignorant like that, do your homework. Japan was indeed one of the FIRSTcountries who provide aid when Katrina hit, but that's beside the point.
"if you only have love for your own race, then you only leave space to discriminate. and to discriminate only generates hate. and when you hate then you're bound to get irate"
So where all these people now? Look at Alabama for instance. They need YOU right now! They need your help. Where are you? Let me guess, you're planning a trip to the mall this weekend since it's payday weekend. What's your excuse now? Now it's "your own people" needing help and yet you still choose to turn your back because worrying about yourself and yourself only is what matters the most to you. People like that disgust me.
"what is going wrong in this world that we're living in, people keep on giving in. making wrong decisions only visions of them dividends. not respecting each other, deny thy brother."

So then yesterday this one specific human being blew off steam about how little she cares about the royals and bla bla bla (the same one claiming she worries about more important things going on here but then says she hasn't heard anything about the 9 dead soldiers in kabul). So of course I had to get in on that debate 'cause it's just in my nature. It got to a point where I mentioned that MAYBE you have to be european to really get the hype. There was no dispresect or arrogance in what I said.  As for me, I am a true blood european. I was born and raised in Bratwurstland (Germany). My parents are both german. So are my grandparents. And my great-grandparents and so forth. So she then replied to that, saying she was european as well seeing how her grandfather was an italian immigrant. Uhm ok? Your grandpa was an italian immigrant. You were born on US soil weren't you? You grew up in the States didn't you? Have you ever even visited Italy? You don't speak the language at all. Do you even know how to cook just one italian meal? And no, Spagetti doesn't count unless you know how to make pasta and the sauce yourself. Do you know anything about Italy at all other than that's where Pizza is orginally from? No. You don't. So don't claim to be european or "italian" hun. You are american with italian descent. There's a big difference there. So that attempt of proving a point clearly didn't work out for you.
So the wedding was just beautiful in my eyes. You have people going around today saying how they were dissapointed, it was so boring. Uhm what did you expect? Seriously, it's not Hollywood, it's real life and if you know anything about the british royal family at all, the fact alone that William and Kate kissed TWICE on the balcony of Buckingham Palace, was exitment enough! And the Queen smiled for crying out loud!!! Ok enough. You either get it or you don't.

I had a lot of positive feedback about yesterday's blog post and my blog in general which truly did surprise me. And of course it made me feel very good :O) I know and am well aware that there's always gonna be people misreading my blogs, blowing things out of porportion, they'll talk shit behind my back for whatever reason. There's always gonna be this ugly thing called JEALOUSY. So even though I had a lot of love pouring down on me today, I also had one sad human being desperately tryinbg to rain on my parade.
My husband reposted my blog today on his facebook. Something he has never done before and he did so with saying the following :
"Check this out. This is why I love her ! Just dont get your feelings hurt if it applys to you lmao."
Thanks for the promo love :O) Seriously though, it made me feel good to see that even he would repost it even though he's not that type of guy. Support is a give and take and he surely supports me and I love him even more for that.
Then I got a message in my facebook inbox. First thing that threw me off was that it said "facebook user" instead of a name. I began reading. A lot of uninteresting nonesense how ....You're so fake...and what not and then in regards to "what your husband posted about your blog, i can only laugh about it!...You're pathetic."
Ok to fill y'all in. This particular being used to have a desperate crush on my husband. Long before him and I started dating. She was, nothing less than a whore (yes I just called you a whore, you know you are so get over it) who literally fucked every american that was running around on german soil. The hottest german guy could approach her, but no, no ID card, no vajayjay. Why? Because she's half american and she wanted a chance to go to States since she would never be able to on her own. Her exact words. It's not oh I got my feelings hurt drama that causes me to make up shit. No. I'm simply stating facts. When my husband and I started dating, I told her about it, she was pissed and called me a "boyfriend stealer" which confused me 'cause you should be dating someone in order to call him your boyfriend, right? You and him were never dating you dumb bitch lmao. There was one night where he got drunk and he made the terrible mistake of kissing you, bless his heart. After that you never heard from him again. Maybe your bad reputation caught up to you, heck I don't know. Whatever. Long story short, my life took a different turn and I stopped talking to her. She kept going through the Barracks, sometimes even seeing more than one soldier at a time. Take into consideration that they go out to the field  A LOT so I guess you gotta use that time wisely? I don't know. Well she went as far as starting a sexual relationship with a married soldier which left her with a baby at 18, Daddy not giving a shit about her or the kid. Shocker. Don't ask me how many times I've heard "oh she's getting married" Boom. No she didn't. She met someone, had sex, got engaged. He broke it off. Over and over and over. Well she got pregnant again. And this one I guess was a keeper 'cause she FINALLY got married after all this misery she brought on to herself. Over the years I had to put up with a lot of her bullshit, spreading lies about my marriage, my husband and continously sending me messages that I really didn't give a rats ass about. She sent my husband a friend request on fb after she got married, he declined. What more do you need woman? We don't care about you.
So now she sends me this message, and then blocks me off facebook so I can't write her back. Does that irritate me? Yes. It does. Does it surprise me? No. It doesn't. But I do get it. I got "her man". I have the life she always wanted. I've accomplished a lot of things in my life. And I didn't have to sell my body out to soldiers to get free drinks at the club. I didn't have to have sex with every penis that walked the Barracks halls. I get that you're jealous hun, I really do. But you should know by now that your pathetic attempts of trying to hurt my feelings (bohoooohooohooo) or to get in between my husband and me are just not going to work. I am not angry nor am I upset. I truly feel sorry for you though. Clearly you're still stuck at the same point you were over 10 years ago. You still don't have a life or else you wouldn't find the time over and over to try and make other people's lives miserable. Be miserable on your own hun, I don't want no part of that.
What does piss me off though is the fact that you weren't even on my husbands facebook and yet you still see what he posts which leads to the conclusion that someone from our past that you're friends with let you snoop around through their profile. Then again not a surprise either. What to expect from people that socialize with someone like you. We live and we learn. Delete.
So that was sort of the highlight of my day. No really it wasn't lmao It just made it better before it even got to the best part. I have to admit that kind of jealousy just reasures me that whatever it is that I am doing is something others only dream about, so why stop? I even wanna go as far as dedicated this blog to you. No I'm still not gonna play dirty and call you out by your name, we're not in 5th grade anymore now are we? But I'm sure you'll find a way to read this so give yourself a big ol' pad on the back, you've done great. You put a smile on my face and inspired me to keep going. So here's to you, if it wasn't for whores like you, I would have less to blog about. Cheers.


It's the last day of school in April. So it was time for Tristan's school Assembly. I knew he was getting an award so like all the other times, I was there to show him my support and how proud I am. Little did I know he was getting Student of the Month today :O) That clearly caught me by surprise and I think I may have embarrased him a little by cheering so loudly and hugging and kissing the devil out of him in front of the entire second grade student body, the principal, all the second grade teachers and - not to forget - his girlfriend :O)
What's funny is that he got a bumper sticker for Lewis Elementary and I've always wanted one of those. Now, 19 days before he's done at Lewis I get one. Go figure. It'll go in his keepsake box for Elementary School though. He also got a gift certificate for a free meal at Mimi's Cafe - with the exp date of May 1st of 2011. That's Sunday. Two days from now. Uhm. Ok way to go being cheap Lewis Elementary lmao I told him we'll go tomorrow, like I'd let a coupon for a free meal go to waste. Pfff.  Not me!

Well after that Mimi and I went to the Thrift Store and surprisingly not only weren't 100 people waiting already, they also had a lot of "good" things left for once. It's friday, they're open wednesday's and friday's only and most of the time all the good stuff is gone right away so going friday's really never was for me, it was mostly a waste of time. But not today. Mimi found a Barbie Ballerina doll that actually dances and shows all the Ballerina moves, and it comes with sensors she can put on her wrists and her ankle (reminds me of Lindsay Lohan's alcohol monitor anklet haha) so Mimi can practice with her and Barbie will respond. Effin cool if you ask me, especially when you consider that I paid 3$ for that thing. She also found two Barbie Ballerina dolls, a Barbie toilet and sink combo that make noise, 3.50$ for all that. And I found one of those big boxes that are meant to store hats in, but it's like a keepsake box with baby boy prints all over it. Brand spankin new for 3.50$ and a complete crib bumper with matching dust ruffle for 2$. And it's a cute one too :O)
It's the little things that make a gal happy I guess.


Again I wanna thank each and everyone of you who's been giving me feedback on my blog. Please don't ever think I'd take it personal if you'd tell me what you DIDN'T like about it. I'm a big girl. I think I can take it. I appreciate any kind of feedback - just not from my beloved husband, he's not entitled to critize me. I'm serious. Or am I?



And for the daily good deed: If you have 10$ left over to give to a good cause,  text REDCROSS to 90999 to help support the storm recoveries here in the USA. Go and donate blood, they're running short. Or just go volunteer with the Red Cross.
Thank you!!!!

Happy Friday!


Peace out!